Showing posts with label Hubby. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Hubby. Show all posts

Sunday, November 3, 2013

Searching for Roots


A couple of months ago I started researching David's (my husband) family tree and now I'm a little obsessed. I've been working primarily with Ancestry.com, but so far I haven't gotten the paid subscription. Everything I've done has been free. Rather than use their sources, once I hit a dead end I've been relying on Google to find more information. I plan to pay for the subscription once I have all the members in place in order to delve into specifics, such as military information, education, etc.

My husbands family, both immediate and distant is huge! I've been working on his paternal grandmother's family for weeks - these people had a ton of children! They also have some very good genealogists among them, there is a ton of information for a lot of them.

A treasure trove of information has been a free site called Find-a-Grave! Not only do you get basic information about the person, it often includes family members, obituaries and even pictures. Most of the time when it lists family members of the deceased, they include links for them which leads to their own page with a lot of information. If you hit on someone who had 10 children and start clicking on links, it's like falling down Alice's rabbit hole - you can be there for days! I found an entire cemetery filled with members of the family - lots and lots of link-clicking there.

A decision we've needed to make - I'm working on this with my mother-in-law - is how much, or who, to include. Do we want to know a great-great-great uncle's wife's father's family information? For now I'm trying to limit it to "blood relatives", only including spouses, not the spouse's family. So far I have 473 people, many with photographs, dating as far back as David's Great x8 Grandfather born in England in 1625. He was the first one I've been able to find so far that came from Europe. Isn't that exciting!

It's like I'm a detective, piecing hints together to uncover a huge story. It's not just names and dates, in the obituaries you learn about these distant relatives - military histories, travel, family tragedies, professional successes. For example, one of David's great-uncles worked for the US military with weapon-disabling robotics in 1940, his title was Military Engineer, but it turns out he didn't get his GED until he retired at the age of 68! We learned of two brothers who died in a house fire in their late teens - David's father was named after both of them. There's all sorts of interesting tidbits. I'm having a blast.

Sadly, it won't be as easy to uncover my family tree. Since I'm a first generation American, the vast majority of my family tree information would be found, if it  even still exists, in Cuba and Spain - a lot more difficult to trace without actually traveling there.

Well...time to go back to the Interwebs to discover more relatives. Who knows what story I'll uncover next?

Friday, November 1, 2013

It's NaBloPoMo Time Again!


Yes, hi, it's me! It's NaBloPoMo time again. Specifically, the November NaBloPoMo. It seems like I may only blog regularly for one month a year. Oh, well, that's something right?

Happily, being November 1st, it's my wedding anniversary!

"16 years ago today I married my best friend."

Gah! While very sweet that statement is so not my style. Also, I don't consider my husband my best friend. The love of my life, my better half (sort of), one of the kindest men I know - absolutely. But he's not my best friend and I don't know that I want him to be. I want him to be my husband, my rock, my partner in everything for the rest of my life. And, thank God, he is all those things.

The 16th anniversary is a weird one - it's hard to remember. 15 was easy, it was milestoney, but, yeah 16 is one more than 15. So YAY us!

It's also Friday - and as I've done whenever I've been blogging regularly since I started blogging, Friday has always been either the Lola Shuffle, where I set my iPod to shuffle or Pandora Pandemonium where I set my Pandora stations to shuffle. I usually do 5 or 10 songs, but from now on, I'll try to add You Tube videos for the songs.

Since my iPod isn't at reach, today it'll be Pandora Pandemonium. Pandora Pandemonium is a bit of an adventure because I may have never heard the song that comes up! Let's see what we get...

Chasing Pavements by Adele - Lovely as always.


Tapestry by Carole King - Iconic! Who doesn't love Carole King?


Hello, It's Me by Todd Rundgren - Appropriate I guess, since I'm reintroducing myself to the blogosphere.


It Will Rain by Bruno Mars - I really like Bruno Mars. Most are you straight up romantic - be they happy songs, or more melancholy, like this one.


Ecstasy by Anonymous 4 - I was hoping Anonymous 4 would shuffle up, I love them! I had never heard this. It seems to have a country twang element to it, right?


OK, so, that's my first post not only for NaBloPoMo 2013, but also for 2013. Wow, it has been a long time!

See you tomorrow!

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Our 15th Wedding Anniversary - a few days late



So, on November 1, Hubby and I celebrated our 15th anniversary! Can you believe it

Our "big gift" was a trip to Orlando - where he proposed 16 years ago, but we went a couple of weeks before the actual anniversary. On our "anniversary anniversary" we went out to dinner at one of our favorite restaurants and then came home and did our anniversary tradition. Yeah, yeah...a little sappy but it work for us!

Happy anniversary again baby!